Believers

 

     This stuck a cord with me as soon as I read it.  I immediately printed it and placed it on the fridge. I especially loved the reminder to, "surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don't see it yourself."

    There are days when I wake up feeling as if I could conquer the world and other's when I wake up feeling inadequate; whether feeling as if I haven't accomplished the goals I had attended to at this time in life, petty stress from work, appearance, family or nearly anything in between.

    In general, many people are far too hard on themselves (including myself) when it comes to categories such as work, family, being a good wife/husband, social life and meeting goals. In fact, according to a recent study published by Huffington Post, "78% of people feel less-than," when it comes to these categories. This is really unfortunate although not too surprising. The phrase "keeping up with the Jones'" comes to mind. As much as we may tell ourselves that keeping up with other's is not important, in some capacity we do care, it's in our chemistry and in a certain capacity can be a good thing that evokes motivation.

    I urge you to keep this quote in mind when thinking of the people you surround yourself with. If you find other's to be putting you down, being flaky with your time, and generally not reciprocating the kindness your giving then  they may not be the type of person you spend your time investing in. As we grow up, I think we learn the hard way that not all friends are life-long friends. People change due to many circumstances but what is refreshing is to know that your best friends will be there for you no matter what. Surround yourself with those that cherish you, lift your spirits when your down, laugh with you so hard your stomach hurts, provide genuine advice in tough times and ultimately bring you happiness. Life is FAR too short to waste your time on anything but the best.